Dear Baby,
All along now, I’ve done the same thing I did when I was pregnant with your brothers and sister. I’ve tried to keep everything as simple as possible where tests and medicines and doctors are concerned, and I’ve prayed a lot, trusting God with as much as I have in me to know that He has you. He does have you, always has and always will. Sometimes as your mama I forget how little I control because of how much I want to know you here–there is a deep, deep longing in my heart to see your face and learn your personality and add you to our family earth side. I think that will make sense to you one day, or at least, I hope it will. Meanwhile, God is taking care of all of the details, not me. I can do my best to grow you well and to be a safe and healthy environment for you for these weeks and months, but I can’t change however many days God has ordained for you here in the world. I just pray that they are many, and that His plans for you are great.
Yesterday in our non-stress test, I listened to your heartbeat galloping along, “like a white noise machine,” as your brother H said. It’s true that the rhythmic, peaceful pattern of your heart was like an invitation to fall in sync with you, even if we already are in sync together. As I waited there, I sat in awe of how God has kept your precious heart beating for at least the past 31 weeks…all inside my belly, all on its own, created by Him and orchestrated by Him without any need for my intervention. How anyone could not marvel at this arrangement will always be a great and heartbreaking mystery to me. The Creator of the Universe sustains you, sustains me. The invitation to participate in this process is so humbling, I never have the right words to describe how it feels.
Tonight I was in my office watering plants and putting a few things away when I saw the stack of ultrasound pictures from the three ultrasounds we’ve had with you. I’ve avoided the rest, but these three scans were fairly important, so we have pictures to look at of you from each of those memorable days. This last time was four weeks ago, and unbeknownst to me, the ultrasound tech decided to turn on the 3D ultrasound just briefly. I was really hesitant to have her do that, but then she found the outline of your face…your features…your little filled out cheeks and tiny lip pout, and I was overwhelmed with who you already are and how you remind me of your siblings but still look just like you. Of course, seeing you for a moment on an ultrasound pales in comparison to the day we’ll meet you face to face, but my heart needed that little encouragement that day and I didn’t even know it. To see just a little bit more of who you are was a gift, and it makes me all the more excited to get to know you when you arrive in just a few weeks.
Everyone here is eager to meet you. I still can’t visualize how everything might go on the day you decide to declare your birthday, but I can absolutely picture the moment we bring you through the front door to meet your brothers and sister. It all feels like a dream now, and it probably will on that day, too. But the closer we get, the more enthralled I am with the idea of it all (even though I’ve not needed anyone to convince me that you’re supposed to be here :). It’s just…the nearest we’ve been to this reality, and I’m feeling all of the feelings about that fact.
You’re 36 weeks along in there, little one, and I’m not even sure if “little one” feels accurate at this stage. Only you’re this precious tiny babe who will come out and make a giant impression in a matter of a moment, and that’s a lot to take in and just the most beautiful reality.
We are waiting for you here, and while there will always be more projects and things I’d like to do, we’ll be ready when you are–however that needs to be. Keep growing inside a little longer, ok? I’ll try to be patient and maybe we can be patient together.
Love you so, little Honeybee,
Mama