This chapter is like waves–moods and feelings, energy and exhaustion all coming and going like a tide washing over whole days and receding on others. One moment, I’m extremely motivated and ready to take on the world and every task, and the next, I’m back on the couch trying to temper down the emotions of the day or the physical sensations of pressure or pain. It’s a roller coaster I don’t mind to be on, but also unpredictable.
Today I woke up after a stretch of seven hours of sleep. These days, that’s a really good, lengthy amount of time for me to be horizontal. I’ve noticed my sleep patterns changing, the early mornings growing earlier and more restless and the nights shorter, no matter when I go to bed. Even after five or six hours of rest, I find I’ll surprise myself by being strangely awake and ready to take on the day. Some days I can coast on that until evening, and other days, I’m ready to crash by lunchtime. I can be so ready to get things done, with a list of projects as long as my arm on my mind. Then I start in on one task and my energy fizzles out long before I’m ready to be done with the effort–just a confusing mix of my head and body not really being in sync with each other, no matter how I will them to be.
There’s a lot of grace for a pregnant mama in her third trimester, I know. But I don’t always have grace for myself, and my expectations are high. Once again I’m facing the message that I need more practice being still. Stillness remains a hard one for me and I wonder how long I’ll keep learning this lesson. To be wired a certain way and have your body working out of sync with that wiring is a tricky dynamic; for me, it’s a testing that adds to my weariness on the harder days.
I’m amazed at the ebb and flow of things right now…my physical capabilities, my emotional strength and resolve, my focus on what’s important and my fixation at times on things that will later be of no consequence at all. I think I’m feeling all of the feelings, and sometimes they come at once. To be happy and sad, joyful and resigned, hopeful and concerned, engaged and removed all in the same day some days, well…I guess I’ll just have to chalk that up to this process and aspects of it I certainly can’t control. I’m good with being here, just learning it in a way I’ve not experienced before. I wonder how I’ll feel on the other side of it all and what my reflection will be on this season when I’m much further down the road.
Tonight I feel the weight of the rhythms of this pregnancy, and not in a bad way, just in a way that makes me take notice. I want to remember that in the middle of this chapter, I was very much carried and not walking the path on my own. When I can’t make sense of it all (or of much), I take great comfort in knowing that it doesn’t all have to make sense to me. God is allowing things to be what they are or aren’t for reasons that will probably turn out to be beautifully stretching and growth-inducing. I’m all in for perseverance to produce character in my life in this process, so as I welcome it, I hope God will do with it all exactly as He sees best for me, for my family, and for this life growing inside of me.
For such a time as this,
MM