It’s such a pick-me-up these days when the mail comes and something I’ve ordered in prep for baby has arrived. I’ve held back on many purchases out of an effort to be practical and minimalistic, but there are some items we really do need (or have needed to replace) that have been fun to pick out again. Today, two little sleepers came that are made of about the coziest material I can imagine putting on a baby. I always think about what it must be like to go from a dark, warm, familiar, floaty place to a bright, fast-paced, noisy and highly-texturized environment–with only moments to adjust. I can’t bear the thought of putting anything but soft, gentle, and light materials on a new baby’s skin, and the sleepers that arrived will be just the ticket.
In case you’re curious, the items that arrived today are 100% gender neutral, which I have to say is a category that’s come along way since a decade ago. Before, it used to be all ducks and copious other animals, but now there are so many beautiful materials being used that are just plain, simple and sweet. I’ve made it kind of a personal goal not to buy anything specifically girl or boy-ish, though I see things all of the time that catch my eye. Soon enough we’ll know who this little one is tucked inside, and then we’ll pick out a few things that refresh the baby items we’re digging out of boxes and washing up to put in drawers. It’s hard to believe that all of our baby things are at least nearing five years old, but some of them are even closer to eight or ten. Some things are still in great shape, and others, having lived in bins for so long, are coming out looking a bit washed up and ready to move on. Maybe that’s part of why getting a few new things in the mail for this little one feels so exciting.
I’m not the only one who loves a good mail surprise these days. E is completely taken with everything tiny and new and baby-related–enough so that it would be worth it to have a few new things around just to share them with her. The anticipation for baby grows daily around here, as is evidenced by everyone’s complete infatuation with any baby that comes into view, right down to baby toe inspections and pulling out all the stops for a tiny smile. It’s really such a gift to experience everyone’s eagerness. I don’t think we go a day lately when at least one sibling doesn’t say, “I just can’t wait until OUR baby gets here.” Goodness, what a gift. Our baby. I love the sound of that.
Baby mail is just one way to stay connected to this little one in more tangible ways while we wait and prepare for baby him/her self. It’s hard to be so eager and to wait without little handholds along the way. I know we have some weeks to go yet, but things are feeling much more real and plausible and close, which I think is a relief to all. This has been a journey; while we’re still on it, it feels better and better all the time that the day is coming. How are we at 44 days left on the countdown already? We’ll blink and it’ll be 30 days, then three weeks, than eventually, “Any day now.” When that time comes, having a few sweet new items to share with our littlest will be icing on the cake. I hope they’ll remind us of the wait and how there truly was joy in it. All of this anticipation is so worth it and makes everything that much richer as it comes.
Grateful and sleepy,
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