The gift of waiting in this kind of season, even though it’s hard, is the way the days aren’t quite as scheduled and there’s sometimes space for a different cadence. We’re done with house projects–not because they’ll ever all be done, but because we’re ready to be done, and because last night we made the decision just to soak up as much of the weekend as we could as a family without having chores and to-dos get in the way. I don’t think we’ll regret it.
This afternoon I held small rocks in my hand–no pockets–just a tiny collection of stones as I picked them up, one by one, off the beach. Smooth ones, etched ones, almost-pebbles that reminded me of this little honeybee in my belly because of their size and perfectly golden color. When I was done growing my small collection, it still grew as the kids each added more to the mix that they wanted to share or thought I’d like. Small stones. A few among thousands or probably millions on the shore of my favorite place, where the waves pushed and pulled them here and there, covering and uncovering new treasures and lapping onto the sand in perfect rhythm. Peaceful rhythm. The place my heart craves most when I’m feeling celebratory or adventurous or sad or ungrounded. The place that somehow always heals, even if there’s nothing pressing that needs healing, and the place that reveals things needing to be healed, even if I didn’t know they were there before.
I gathered up my long dress and stepped into the water today–not something I always do when we go to the beach, though maybe I should. The cool water was like a balm as it covered my bare feet, little gems of rocks in every color beneath me and shifting like the sand. Grounded. The way I want and need to feel right now as I prepare in heart and mind to welcome baby and to enter into the space that is labor and delivery, somewhere between heaven and earth in ways, life springing forth while I’m holding on and letting go at the same time. And these stones. Evidence marking the time of the here and now, but weighty as they represent all that’s anticipated, too.
Leaving the beach, I clutch these stones and bring them home with me. Not because I need rocks in new places around the house, but because they mark a time and space where I felt wholly present to all that was around me and in me. Because in every stone, there is something of the marvelous–intentional creativity and variation, color, texture, beauty. God in the details. Something to notice for the noticers, and I want to be among them. At home, tiny rocks that have a story of their own find a spot clustered together, not mixed in with other stones from other times and places. I won’t always remember them sitting there, but when I do go back to them, I’ll remember this day, this weekend. The way the sun glistened on the water and the breeze was perfect. How the kids picked up rocks to their hearts’ content, how this belly was still so full with baby, how it all felt magical in a way and time stood still.
Stones. Marking the time, the days, the atmosphere. The depth and light of this life I never want to take for granted. The promise of waves always cresting, pebbles always tumbling, God always present and patiently waiting for us to see Him in this moment, right where we are.
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